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Cody Paul Haynes, 16, of Lumberton, NJ was killed in a car accident on November 3, 2002.  He is survived by his mother, Dawn Wolfe, his dad, Glenn Cafaro Jr, and his younger brother, Carrick Maddex all of Lumberton, NJ.  He is also survived by his fiancé  Jenine Purnell of Lindenwold, NJ;  his father, Tim Maddex and brothers Josh and Tanner of Alaska; grandparents, Jim Tom Haynes and Sarah Pleydell of Washington, DC and Monte and Karren Hill of Fairbanks, AK; great-grandmother, Etta Lynch of Lubbock, TX; aunts Clarity Haynes of Philadelphia, PA and Joy Haynes of San Francisco, CA; uncles Justice and True Haynes of Washington, DC; great aunt and uncles Joy and Bill Hester and Lee Ray Haynes of Houston, TX; aunts and uncle Chuck, Robin, Becky and Cooper of Denver, CO

Also survived by grandmother Sandra Cafaro of Mapleshade;  grandparents Glenn Sr. and Gail Cafaro of NC; aunt Melissa Cafaro and cousin Mia of Mapleshade, aunt Sherri Finely & Family of Barrington; uncle Jim Cafaro of Barrington; and many, many cousins. 

            Cody was born on December 2, 1985 in Denver, CO. During his 16 years he was lucky enough to live in places like Fairbanks, AK, Englewood, CO, Stagecoach, TX and Marlton, Medford and Lumberton, NJ. He was a charismatic, self-confident and caring young man who aspired to be the best at whatever he did. He was a confidant and inspiration to all his friends. He had a smile for everyone and made friends everywhere he went.  Cody excelled at sports as well as academics. He LOVED basketball and dedicated himself to being the best player he could be, in the hopes of someday attending and playing for the University of Maryland. He was an Honor student at Rancocas Valley High School, where he was proud to be a member of the Varsity basketball team. He was active in the Lighthouse Tabernacle Church Youth Group in Lumberton.  Cody was looking forward to building a life with his beloved fiancé Jenine Purnell of Lindenwood, NJ. Cody loved his life, his family, his girl and his many friends, and in that we do take comfort. 

He was a beautiful soul that shone brightly. He was given the name Cody because it meant “Little Helper” and as he matured the name proved to fit him perfectly. He will be deeply missed by all, but especially by his mother. He was truly her “little helper”  

A memorial service will be held this Saturday, November 9, 2002 at 1pm at the Lighthouse Tabernacle Church 716 Main St. in Lumberton, NJ 

Cody would want all financial contributions to be sent to help his brother Carrick with his educational goals. Checks should be made payable to

Carrick Maddex
P.O. Box 184
Lumberton, NJ 08048-0184